I think that that is pretty unfair.. he should be supporting you and your child, your parents
shouldn't have to pitch in at all.
When I was still with my daughter's father, he didn't work, and when he did, I was pretty much in
charge of the money because he was so bad with it

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I'm sorry I don't have much more advice for you.. because now I'm living on the pension, with just
me and bub, and it's working out fine for us

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